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DTOTD: The Blessing of Sacrifice Over Convenience

DTOTD: Sacrifice Over Convenience 

If we’re honest, most of us like serving when it fits neatly into our schedules, our expectations, and our sense of control. We like predictable outcomes. We like knowing how things will go. We like convenience. But Jesus has never been overly concerned with convenience. When Jesus calls us to follow Him, He calls us into a life that often trades comfort for compassion, predictability for presence, and convenience for sacrifice. And nowhere is that more evident than when we serve those who are unhoused. 

Serving our unhoused neighbors can feel messy. It can be unpredictable. It can stir anxiety, uncertainty, and even fear. Can any of us control the weather to make sure we serve on the days we committed to? Being on call means we don’t make other plans because we are committed to something that may not happen and definitely won’t happen the way we thought it might. We may wonder: 

What if this goes wrong?
What if I say the wrong thing?
What if my help isn’t enough?
What if nothing changes? 

Scripture never promises that obedience will feel easy. But it does promise that obedience matters. Luke 9:23 informs how we choose to spend our time and resources in this way. If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. 

When we serve our unhoused neighbors, we are choosing sacrifice over convenience. We sacrifice comfort. We sacrifice control. We sacrifice our preference for clean lines and tidy endings. And yet—this is the way of Jesus. Jesus stepped into unpredictable spaces. He touched the untouchable. He listened to stories that were long and complicated. He lingered where others hurried past. The call to “deny yourself and take up your cross” isn’t just about suffering—it’s about laying down our need to be in charge. 

Convenience asks, “How quickly can this be resolved?”
Sacrifice asks, “How faithfully can I show up?” 

Convenience asks, “How little will this cost me?
Obedience asks, “What is God inviting me to lay down? 

Convenience asks, “Is this safe and predictable?
Obedience asks, “Will I trust God even when I don’t know what comes next?” 

To overcome the lies of convenience Satan whispers to us, we often need to name our fears, anxieties, and uncertainty. Let’s say it out loud: serving unhoused people can feel scary sometimes. 

Not because people experiencing homelessness are the problem—but because we don’t know what to expect. We can feel unprepared and ill-equipped. Uncertainty can create anxiety. Anxiety can create fear. And fear can quietly convince us to step back instead of stepping forward. But Scripture reminds us in 2 Timothy 1:7, For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” God does not shame us for feeling fear—but He does invite us not to be led by it. You have heard it said that Courage is not the absence of fear. Courage is choosing obedience in the presence of fear.  

One of the greatest burdens we carry into service is the belief that we are responsible for the results. We want changed lives right in front of our eyes on our watch. If we give up this time and this comfort, then we want it to mean something immediately. We want tidy success stories.
We want measurable outcomes. But Scripture gently—and firmly—reminds us that outcomes belong to God. In 1 Corinthians 3:6–7 we read, I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So, neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth.” Our role is not to fix. Our role is not to rescue. Our role is not to be thanked or receive gratitude from our guests. Our role is not to guarantee transformation. Our role is obedience. We show up. We love faithfully. We serve with humility. We trust God with what we cannot control. Obedience is success in the Kingdom of God. 

Harvester Christians, when you serve our unhoused neighbors—even when it’s uncomfortable, unpredictable, or inconvenient—you are walking in the way of Jesus. Every night blocked out of your schedule. Every meal served. Every conversation shared. Every boundary held with grace. Every moment of presence offered. None of it is wasted. God sees your obedience. God honors your sacrifice. God works in ways you may never fully see this side of heaven. 

God, we confess that we often prefer convenience over sacrifice. We admit our fear, our anxiety, and our desire for control. Give us the courage to follow You into uncertain spaces. Remind us that we are not responsible for outcomes—only obedience. Help us to serve with humility, love with compassion, and trust You with the results. May our lives reflect the sacrificial love of Jesus. Amen 

 

Reflections after our first Warming Center Experience

I don’t know if there are human words to express what we experienced this week hosting the overnight EWR Warming Center for our unhoused neighbors. Over 4 nights that dropped below the threshold of 20 degrees, HCC provided 115 beds to our homeless neighbors. As the temperatures plummeted outside it forced some of God’s most beautiful creations to come inside to us I’m not even sure how to organize my thoughts here to share our experiences.

I sway between being in awe and humility of God entrusting us with these people. I am grieved and saddened that God’s creations are so marginalized and so unseen. I swing back to being so proud of our volunteers stepping into the unknown and the uncomfortableness and watching them love and serve.  I am blown away by God’s provision not only for us in the facilities that we have, and services we have and the generosity of Harvester Christian folk through our Give Hope campaigns to His provision and our volunteers of providing energy, stamina, and love. We had young adults to retired folk provide hot meals and drinks. We had our neighbors at O’Fallon Christian help us with all the pounds of laundry and packing the trailer. We had Harvester volunteers in the thick of their own battles step in to serve. We had volunteers sacrifice sleep all night and then go work a full-time job the next day.

I don’t want to say that we provided shelter for our homeless neighbors because I think that puts a worldly understanding of a human being in your mind which is probably inaccurate. When I say the word homeless, I think we tend to jump to preconceived ideas and judgments about why someone might be in that situation. I could tell you that we served addicts. I could tell you that we served convicts. I could tell you that we served the mentally ill. I could tell you we served veterans. I could tell you that we served women who had experienced horrific sexual abuse and domestic violence but those are labels that limit and do not give honor to God’s creation. These are His people who were fearfully and wonderfully made who are just as lost and wounded as you and I. I will tell you instead that God provided us the opportunity to serve men and women and sons and daughters and husbands and wives. I can tell you that God provided the opportunity for us to serve someone’s child.

The final night that we were activated I was running on fumes. I’d had extremely little sleep all week long. Every day I was struggling to find the right number of volunteers, and food, and replace things that we had run out of while trying to take care of myself and my family as well. I rushed around getting the laundry and trying to have things ready for our volunteers as they arrived. As I pulled into the church parking lot the song “Gratitude” by Brandon Lake came on Joy FM. If you know me at all you know that this song absolutely wrecks me and brings me to tears. I reached up to turn the volume down and said “Lord, Really? Gratitude?  I cannot do this right now. I cannot break down. I have to keep going for the volunteers, our guests, and you!” The Lord’s response to me was,

“Baby girl, you know that you were never meant to do this on your own. I need you to remember to start and stop with gratitude. Don’t be just grateful that you are not homeless. Don’t be grateful that you do have a warm home to go to. Don’t be grateful that in the event of a major life crisis, you would have safety net after safety net after safety net. Don’t be grateful that you have insurance and that you are healthy.  Don’t be grateful that you don’t have to sleep in your car. Be grateful for who I am and who I say I am and the things that I have done and will do.”

Talk about perspective.

The coming days, weeks, months, and potentially years will be challenging as a community to provide resources to serve a variety of people. Whether it’s people dealing with mental illness, homelessness, job loss, a family with a child with autism or cerebral palsy, or people trying to acquire job skills. It will be tempting to hunker down for all the things God showed me I was holding onto.  It will be tempting to allow Satan to convince us to shield our eyes, to guard our hearts, to proceed in ignorance and judgment, to ignore the issues, and to go along with the status quo. My prayer for us after this week is that we won’t be able to help ourselves in serving others no matter the cost.  My prayer is that we will all cooperate with the Holy Spirit and not assume it is the church’s responsibility to provide an event or program. My prayer is that when it is the most uncomfortable, when it is the most unknown we will turn to God first and trust him to guide our steps and to provide wisdom and discernment. I pray we will be obedient to the Greatest Commandment of Loving God and Loving Others. I pray as Harvester Christians that we would continue to live out justice and generosity in our families, literal neighborhoods, in Saint Charles County, and across the globe.